Love the skin you’re in

One of the bravest things I have ever done!!!!

I don’t write this blog for sympathy so please keep that to yourself. I write this blog to encourage, inspire, and help build up anyone who maybe going through. And had to deal with the issue of not loving the skin you are in. Because maybe you were bullied, 0r just been told by certain people you are ugly/not cute enough….. Causing you to feel as if you are not good enough. Fact is you are more than enough, and we are all beautiful in our own unique way!!!!! So we must learn to live it, own it, and be brave with it and Love the skin we are in!!!! So walk with me on this journey as I share my truth, and hope that it empowers you to love all of you. And never allow anyone else to make you feel, or think that you are not good enough okay!!!!!

° We are all made in His image so therefore we are all royalty created by a King.

 I’ve never posted pictures of myself on any social-media site…. Because I was always afraid of what people may think or say, because I’ve seen some of the judgemental looks. And rather some want to believe it aren’t, you can go a lot of places and get a lot of things handed out to you. If you look like Beyonce, Cassie, Karruche, or Kim K just to name a few. And many men will look at your face first, then your hair and finally your eyes. Most men are attracted to looks that will eventually fade, instead of a womans heart and soul.

That kind of treatment can start to affect you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually amongst other things. Causing you to question your worth and even begin to hate the way you look at times, and the many what ifs come into your mind… . What if this?  What if that?  And then maybe if it was you would be further alone in life, not feeling overlooked and pushed to the side……  Having to get through low self-esteem, self-hate, self-evaluation of yourself . Which then turns into you judging every flaw you have, instead of loving and embracing every flaw that you have. Beating yourself up because a man just didn’t see you as good enough. But, everyone else is cute enough and worthy enough leaving you to have to rebuild yourself up. Finding the courage to look at what was broken and say you are beautiful. You are good enough, you are smart enough, strong enough, your heart is big and caring amongst other great qualities. And any man would be the lucky one to have you in their life. Trust me when I say it isn’t you it is them, and something within them that needs to be worked on!!!! So never allow another man to break you down so badly, that you begin to question yourself  and your worth. You have to know who you are and walk in complete CONFIDENCE , and know that one day the right man….. With the right out look will come a long and see all that you are worth and more.

°People will rate you, hate you, try to break you. But, it is up to you to not allow it to shake you or destroy you and who you are!

You have to love the skin you are in and know that you are one of a kind… Never allow anyone to take that peace from you. And anyone who talks about you, judge you, or mistreat you in any kind of way based on the way you look. Or for no reason at all because you don’t fit the standards….  On what they think you should look like, whatever “The Look” is!!! Shake it all off and pray for them and keep it moving, with all your beauty, style, and grace!!!! Because those that judge you and mistreat you, isn’t your problem to deal with God will take care of them. Stay strong loving you beautiful Queens, because God made you and that alone says you are Good Enough!!!!! And I hope you are loving the skin you are in!


Author: ladyebonyl

Walking in my truth using life lessons to help the next. Perfecting my craft one blog at a time, walk with me on the journey of telling my story.

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