She don’t look like Beyoncé and her skin isn’t light enough. She too dark and too skinny, she too big and not thick enough. Her legs are skinny and she don’t have curves, she stay with someone. She too quiet and she frown too much, she don’t look right to me. Her hair not dark enough oh and she has no booty. Is that your real hair? No it’s too short… No it’s not long enough, why your nails and your toes not done? She not mixed, something is wrong with her. She just don’t fit with what I like, and she isn’t attractive. Why she cannot look like Halle Berry? Why she don’t make a high salary? That car she drive ain’t good enough for my liking, I need a girl with natural skin no makeup. I want my woman to wear makeup, and she must dress nice all the time and wear heels like Beyoncé.
…………………………………………….The judgement and so many picky thoughts that run through most men head. Sometimes being so picky that they end up missing “The One.” Because they want a Beyoncé look alike when fact is, there is only one Beyoncé who cannot be duplicated. Some women are like this too when it comes to men, but I believe the Complex came from men. When fact is every woman is a precious jewel, created by the Most High. And yes sometimes she can and will be
but most definitely a one of a kind gem. With all the demands put on a woman until a man realize truth, if it came down it. And you woke up tomorrow and said you was wrong about her and you see what God has shown for so long, and you want to give it a try. Fact is a real woman genuinely wouldn’t want you at all, and would bless God for reaching you and causing you to wake up to truth. She would never ever accept that so long went by, and you allowed judgement to cloud your views. Wake up men and realize while you judging a woman, the best way to get to know her is spirit to spirit. Because one day that Beyoncé beauty you so desire will fade. And then the true question is what will you do then? When what attracted you to her( her looks) is old and wrinkled. When will men who is looking to fall in love with a woman start seeing her soul? And realize this is her essence, and the first true key to a long marriage? Because every pretty face(in their opinion) is sometimes beautifully empty with no true beauty. Because the heart is simply not right, and she ends up being just a pretty face with nothing more to offer than just pretty.