How do you deal with a situation that is emotionally draining? One that breaks your heart over and over, not understanding why a person is the way they are. Like what hurt them so deeply to cause them to reject, and push away a love that is pure and unconditionally true? What causes them to block something with a harden heart? I mean take a chance on getting to know everyone else around, but block and stay guarded from the one that has done nothing but love and honor them with respect.. What causes a person to be so cold towards love, and hurt love like the heart doesn’t matter? Could it be the outside voice that stays too overly concerned and controlling? This is why people should mind their business when it comes to friendships, relationships, or situations that don’t involve them at all. Because while they think they might be helping, they are only adding more fuel to a already harsh burning fire(just back off) better yet just stay out of it all together.
If someone brings a situation to you and it doesn’t involve you, the best response is I don’t want to hear it you two work it out. You two sit down and hash it out and be truly honest with one another. That way you won’t be involved in gossip(that’s what it is) when both parties aren’t around to hear. And one person is saying to the outsider what should’ve been said to the one involved. Fact is hurt people hurt people and do they care is a big question? You have one person who is loyal, respectful, caring, and honest with nothing but love in their heart. That believed and trusted only to get hurt and betrayed for what? Why do people push away those who love them and never would hurt them? Why do people play games and judge people who they don’t know in truth, and never took the chance to genuinely know? Why do people hurt people with their horrible actions, and then turn around and play victim like they done nothing wrong? People in today’s society don’t value and cherish people in truth, they don’t honor and respect those who genuinely value them and would never hurt them. They treat those who love them in truth like the enemy, the ones that put up with their mess and all their flawed ways and never hurt them. The ones that protect them even when they aren’t around, even when they throw the ones that LOVE them under the bus with their selfish and prideful ways.
You have to be one blessed person who has anyone in your life, that will endure the storms with you and still love you in your crazy ways. You should stop and question, why do this person still love me so much even after all I done and all the hurt I caused? Why would this person still believe in me? Why would this person still respect me and be gentle? Fact is when you genuinely love someone, you don’t give up on them in spite of their flaws. You don’t throw them away like they don’t hold value, you continue to give them GRACE even when they don’t deserve it. When you love someone from your heart, and the depth of your soul it is eternal and forever.