Reactions

It’s crazy how a person can judge you for your reaction to them and not dealing with their behavior. And then you become completely to blame, I wonder do they remember what they did to get that reaction or do they just block it out and play victim? This person you would call a narcissist, they place blame on others for their wrong doing and they refuse to see both sides. They try and control the other person in every way possible, and you bet not speak up about how you are feeling. Because when you do they will find a way to flip it on you, they will make you feel bad for feeling bad when you have good reason. That’s toxic when a person don’t take in to consideration how you feel, you listen to how they feel with care and your feelings don’t matter.

Truth is we are all born different with total different attributes about us. It’s what makes us unique and different, there is no reason why someone who doesn’t feel should make you feel bad for feeling. There are many people who don’t listen to comprehend, many just listen to respond with judgement and that’s not right. Everyone deserves a healthy and full relationship, and when you don’t have that it’s best to take a deep look and find out why. And then ask yourself the question of can it be fixed? Will the person be open and real enough to look at his or herself? Will the person ask themselves why is the person responding to me like they do? In order for any relationship to work rather it is friendship or whatever, there has to be open communication and complete honesty. No one should have to figure out what a person is thinking or feeling, it is very selfish to assume a person is just supposed to know. And when you genuinely care, you would never lie to the person you say you care about and you have a bond with. You will never treat that person one way and then hurt them in another, be careful who you hurt because you’ll never know if you’ll need them down the line. Loyalty is very rare these days, so when you find a good loyal person you should do everything to hold on to them.

Good Woman!!!!

One who believes in love and respect full of loyalty. One who is giving, kind, respectful and nowhere near weak. Not a perfect woman and still growing into a even more better me, I love in truth and I love hard. I am beyond old fashioned and deep with a old soul, I have been that way since I can remember. I see black and white no in between and I believe in honesty, sometimes so much I scare me at times. I believe in any relationship rather it is friendship or whatever, there has to be communication without fear of judgement. All people are made different, and what one may understand and like the other person may not. But, that don’t mean it’s okay to judge the next person, I pray one day for the man meant for me to see this. To see me in truth and love me and my flaws, a man that will protect me when I am not around like I would do him. A man that will never hurt me or mistreat me, a man who has patience and understanding with me.

I am a good woman that waits for that good man that will put only God first, and then if he has kids I wouldn’t mind at all being 3 rd. I know what it feels like to not have a present father, so I desire a man that will be a good leader and role model and a awesome father to kids. I desire a healthy relationship with trust, one that is healthy mind/body/spirit. I wait for a relationship were a smile is on in truth, a relationship full of fun and living and enjoying life. A relationship were the man leads in truth, a man that I can submit to and I know without doubt he has my best interest at heart. One who thinks I am beautiful and makes me feel it even more. I know that I am beautiful, I just believe it is a healthy thing to know it and hear it from your man the one you love. I am a good woman with a good heart that wants to feel safe with the one I love, knowing that he will protect me from outsiders and not allow anyone or their judgemental ways to come between us. I pray for a man that thinks/feel with his heart and lives by truth, one that will love me just as much or more than I love him. I have dealt with so much in relationships, that I won’t allow a repeat of the past or any mistakes. I am open to learn and grow even more for the better, I am a Queen that waits for my King that I can love and take care of and cater to in every single way.

I am a good woman that waits for a man who will challenge me for the better and push me even more for the better. A good man that I can share anything with and my secrets will be sare with him. A man that will be my best friend and my homie, a man that love’s God and has a relationship with Him. A man that loves in truth and not afraid to show his emotions, I am a good woman and I will wait on that good man who is ready to love completely in truth.